Summary
Avery Dennis is a popular high school senior whose very public breakup right before prom prompts her to reflect on all her past relationships. She decides to interview her ex-boyfriends as part of an oral history project, hoping to understand why none of her relationships have worked out and whether she might be the common denominator.
Language
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ProfanityMild
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Blasphemy / Religious ProfanityNone
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Crude / Childish LanguageMild
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Racial / Ethnic SlursNone
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| f-word | 1-2 |
| sh*t | 1-2 |
| *ss | 1-2 |
| b*st*rd | 1-2 |
| b*tch | 1-2 |
| bl**dy | 1-2 |
| bug**r | 1-2 |
| d*mn | 1-2 |
| c-word | 1-2 |
| h*ll | 1-2 |
| cr*p | 1-2 |
🔒 Sign in free to read the detailsViolence
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Graphic Violence / GoreNone
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Disturbing / FrighteningNone
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Vulgar / Obscene GesturesNone
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Bullying / Verbal CrueltyMild
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🔒 Sign in free to read the detailsRomance & Sex
💋 Romance and sexual content in It's Not Me, It's You
Explicit Sexual ContentNone
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Sexually SuggestiveMild
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Kissing (Light / Peck)Moderate
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Kissing (Passionate)Mild
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Heterosexual RomanceSignificant
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Homosexual RomanceNone
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🔒 Sign in free to read the detailsDrugs & Alcohol
🍷 Drugs and alcohol in It's Not Me, It's You
Illegal Drug UseNone
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Legal Alcohol UseNone
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Implied / Referenced UseNone
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📋 Other content in It's Not Me, It's You
Medical / Body ProcessesNone
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Heavy Emotional ThemesModerate
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Deception / LyingMild
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